What Happens When You Refuse to Forgive?

by Percival J. Meris on October 26, 2014

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WHEN YOU REFUSE TO FORGIVE, you are tempted to get even – to seek revenge. To seek revenge is not a well thought out response. Like the instinct of self-preservation, it is the product of biologically designed system of self-protection.

Your nervous system perceives danger, but it cannot distinguish between present and past dangers. So, it activates your fight-or-light response.
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